White supremacy taught me that I didn’t deserve to be the leading character in my own life. Now I’m working to unlearn self-hatred. — “My favorite chink.” As I flipped through my dad’s high school yearbook, I couldn’t believe how many of his classmates left racist handwritten messages. In shock, my sister and I confronted him. How could he be okay with his friends using slurs against him? My dad responded with a laugh…